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EF #41: đŽâđ¨ Exhausted, Ghosted, and Burned Out: The Brutal Truth About Freelancing Right Now
Are you feeling it, too?
Welcome to the 41st edition of Expertâ˘ish Freelancer, a newsletter that helps you grow your freelance business with confidence. Get tips, tools, and insights every other Friday to help you save time, make money, and work smarter based on my 35+ years as a freelance writer.
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Happy Halloween!
On this spooktacular Friday, Iâm definitely in TGIF mode. Iâve been nursing a respiratory infection đˇ these past few weeks, and itâs zapping my energy. So, Iâm looking forward to relaxing a bit this weekend and having a little fun (fire pit night? new Springsteen movie?).
Iâm also grateful I had a relatively slow week of workâjust one deadline. I needed a break, as September was way too busy. And last week, I went on an awesome road trip đ (South Carolina to North Carolina to Tennessee).
While travel is always fun, it can be exhausting, especially when Iâm not feeling well. So, Iâm embracing the slow pace right now. How was your October?
Todayâs newsletter focuses on the rough state of freelancing right now.
đ Key Takeaways:
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You're not alone struggling.
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Forced pauses bring clarity.
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Know what not to pursue.

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Exhausted, Ghosted, and Burned Out: The Brutal Truth About Freelancing Right Now
I'm going to be transparent with you in a way I don't always allow myself to be in these newsletters. This isn't my usual how-to format. Instead, it's a frank conversation about what I'm observing and experiencing as we wind down 2025.
And if you're feeling it too, know that you're not alone.
The Current Reality Check
Everything freelancing feels SO much harder right now.
I'm being ghosted đť more oftenâincluding by editors I've worked with for years. It's disheartening in a way that goes beyond just lost income.
Every week, I read about more layoffs. Editors and content marketing managers I've pitched to or collaborated with are losing their jobs. The connections I've spent years building are evaporating, not because of anything I did, but because entire departments are disappearing.
Many clients are putting a pause on outsourcing. I keep hearing the same refrain: budgets are frozen or depleted until 2026. The work that was there in summer has simply... stopped.
And then there's AI, hovering over everything, making me question how to pivot my business when the industry itself is being fundamentally reshaped.
These aren't separate problems. They're all symptoms of a larger contraction happening across our industry. It's exhausting. It's scary. And some days, it feels relentless.
And yetâand this surprised meâI'm also finding unexpected gifts đ in this difficulty.
The Blessing in Disguise
I had a great five-figure month in September, but I worked way too much. I was productive, successful, and headed straight for burnout without even realizing it.
Then the budget freezes hit in October. Clients paused projects. My calendar suddenly had white space.
At first, I panicked. But then I realized something: the market just gave me the reset I needed but would probably not have given myself.
I'm now embracing a slower pace đ˘ for the rest of Q4, and honestly? It feels like I can breathe again.
This forced pause has also clarified something I've been avoiding: I need to rebalance my marketing efforts. I've been spending too much time and energy on editorial pitching when I should be focusing more on working with brands for consistent content marketing needs.
Yes, it's a delicate balanceâI travel a lot, and those press trips are tied to editorial workâbut maybe that tension is okay. Maybe I don't have to figure it all out right now.
Sometimes the market forces the wisdom we need to hear.
Perspective Shifts Everything
This week, I was interviewed by a journalism student (đ hi, Lauren!) at Kent State University. As I answered her questions about my decades-long journalism career, I found myself reflecting on just how much has changedâand how far I've come.
I started freelancing in the 1980s, pre-Internet. There were no âcalls for pitchesâ online, no databases of media outlets. Everything was print-based. Everything took longer (think 4-6 weeks to hear a rejection from an editor via mail.) I had to adapt then, and I've adapted through every industry upheaval since.
Recently, I attended an excellent content strategy bootcamp by Treasa Edmond. It provided an overview of how in-depth and complicated a full content strategy really isâand honestly, it was fascinating.
If I were at an earlier phase in my career, I would have immediately signed up for her nine-month, deep-dive course. It's exactly the kind of worthwhile investment that could transform someone's freelance business, especially if you want to offer higher-level strategic services to clients. (I highly recommend taking Treasaâs next bootcamp to see if content strategy is right for you.)
The foundational work is substantialâit would take months to truly learn the elements and years to perfect those skills. And Treasa, with her deep expertise in content strategy, is absolutely the person to learn from if you're ready to go all-in on that path.
đ But here's what I realized: at 61, this is not the direction I want to take. Truly, it was a đĄmoment. As I wind down my career over the next few years, I donât want such a major pivot in my business.
That's not defeat. That's wisdom. Not every upskilling opportunity is the right investment, and knowing what NOT to chase is just as valuable as knowing what to pursue.
Keeping options open doesn't mean following every pathâit means exploring strategically, keeping an open mind, and making informed choices about where to invest your finite time and energy.
What This Means for You
So where does this leave us as we prepare to close out 2025?
I want to encourage youâinspire you, reallyâto do what works for YOU right now.
Pivot as needed.
Work more if you want to capitalize on opportunities.
Work less if you need to recover.
Check in with the goals đŻ you set back in January. Which ones still matter? Which ones can you release?
And start thinking about 2026. Not in a pressured, resolution-setting way, but in a curious, open-ended way. What do you want your freelance life to look like? What would feel sustainable and fulfilling?
đ Give yourself permission to feel the difficulty without shame. Give yourself permission to change direction mid-stream. Give yourself permission to say no to opportunities that don't serve your long-term visionâeven opportunities that look good on paper.
There's no one ârightâ way to freelance through uncertain times. Your path will look different from mine. And that's not just okayâthat's exactly how it should be.
Moving Forward Together
Sharing these random thoughts instead of polished advice feels risky. It's vulnerable in a way that my usual newsletters aren't. But maybe that's what we all need right nowâless performance, more connection. Less certainty, more honesty. đ
We're all figuring this out as we go. The industry is changing faster than any of us can fully process. But we're doing it together, and there's real strength in that.
đ How are you dealing with this weird state of freelancing right now? Hit reply and let me knowâI read every response, and your question might inspire the next newsletter!

âŹď¸ High: I got three new assignments this weekâone resulting from the road trip press trip I just took last week. Woohoo!
âŹď¸ Low: I just got feedback from a new-to-me editor about an assignment I submitted a few weeks ago, with the note, âSending this back to you with some fairly major edits.â I rarely get edit requests on my work, let alone major edits. Ugh.

What do you need permission to do right now?I'll share what everyone said in the next issueâcurious to see if we're all feeling the same things. |

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Iâll be back in two Fridays with another edition of Expertâ˘ish Freelancer.
In the meantimeâŚ.
Be kind. Do good. Give thanks. đ
With gratitude,
Lisa Beach
Namaste, freelancers!
FYI: In yoga, the instructor often closes the session by saying ânamasteâ as a way of acknowledging and honoring the light, spirit, or goodness within each person in the class. đ§ââď¸ Itâs often used as a closing to convey unity (weâre all interconnected), gratitude (thank you for this shared experience), respect (I respect you and your journey), and peace (may you find peace within yourself). Essentially, it's a way to acknowledge the shared experience and to leave with a sense of peace and connection. đ

